Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Now the healing has begun...I think...

Well, Dad's memorial service was nice. We did it at the house and while it didn't seem as formal as maybe it should have been, it was all I could do. His sister and her husband came down from Mississippi and my Mom and Dad came down from Groesbeck along with my brother and his family. It was intimate but small. Actually it turned into a weekend event since everyone stayed at the house all weekend. Our house was full, but I am glad that they were able to be there!

The slideshow/movie I made was a big hit so I am happy about that. And while I didn't think it would be possible, I do feel better having the service behind me. I actually put some pictures in a frame and brought it to the office. That says alot since it hasn't been that long that I cried just at the sight of him in a picture or the thought of him. Now, I am able to start getting my heart to understand that he would want us to miss him but he would want us happy.

Thanks to Aunt Mert and Aunt Bev for the beautiful plant. Also thanks to Dad's girlfriend Denyse for the flowers. They sure did help to brighten up the room! Thank you also Laura for your kind thoughts. These have been some pretty dark days in my life and I look forward to putting them behind me.

The weekend ended with Amy going home with Granny and Brad going home with my aunt. Anyone like to have a 4 year old for a few days????

Now, it's time to start gearing up for school to start. I would sure like to be able to take some time and not have to always be preparing for something....will that ever happen?

3 comments:

  1. Sure send Amy home with her Granny, but she couldn't come home with me.
    I am glad all went well and your heart is in the healing process. I have not lost anyone yet, both sets of my grandparents are still alive and I can honestly say I am dreading the phone call one day, I know I will not deal with it well. I am not one with words of wisdom or what to say to someone with a broken heart that needs to be mended or in the loss of a loved one, but I know God is on our side and you will see him again someday.
    Lots of Love

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  2. I am so glad it is behind you. Someday, peace will actually replace the saddness. You will smile at the pictures - not cry...
    See you all soon...I hope.

    You are welcome for the plant.

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  3. Love you all.
    Aunt Myrt is right... someday you will smile when you see pictures of your Dad. They will even bring you comfort and peace-

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